I Lost My Grandfather Last Night

[Jason Dunn]

I'm typing this sitting at a Starbucks in Penticton, British Columbia. On Sunday night I received a phone call from my sister telling me that my grandfather was suffering from kidney and liver cancer, and was near death. This came as a complete shock to everyone - a few weeks ago he was healthy and walking around. Ashley and I got on a plane and flew to BC Monday afternoon, and got to see him open his eyes and acknowledge we were there. Last night, while I was holding his hand, he passed away - his lungs filled with fluid and his heart stopped. I've never experienced death in such a direct manner before, so it was an experience unlike anything else - and likely something I'll be exploring on my personal blog in the future. We're going to stay in Penticton until the funeral on Saturday, then we'll be heading home. <br /><br />I have no connectivity unless I walk over to the nearby shopping mall and pay $8 for an hour of online access ($13 for the day) so if I don't respond to email messages or forum posts, that's why. I'll likely be back on Sunday night and returning to work Monday morning.

[Pete Paxton]

Jason, I'm very sorry for your loss. My wife and I will be praying for you and your family.

[Rocco Augusto]

i'm so sorry for your loss. i wish you the best of luck in these difficult times!

[zoom2020]

I am very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you & your family.

[phoenixfire1965]

I am very sorry for your loss, I was close to my Grandfather and could not be there when he passed away. My condolences to you & your family.

[ZappCatt]

Sorry to hear that.
Our thoughts are with you..

[John Cody]

Hey Jason,

I kind of know what you are going through....my grandmother just passed away three weeks ago. She was 89, and walking and talking up until a month ago.

I too was fortunate to visit her when she was still able to see and recognize me - that meant a lot to me.

It's comforting to know she is now in a better place, with my grandfather, her mother and father, and all her brothers and sisters.

Peace.

[Kirkaiya]

Sorry to hear about your grandfather, Jason. I know there is no "bright side" to losing a grandparent (i've lost three of four)... even so, someday, when I do also die, I hope it's when I'm also still healthy enough to be walking around the day before, rather than wasting away from cancer.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

[bleeman]

My condolences Jason.

Take this time to reflect on all the good memories you've had with your grandfather and enjoy the comfort and company of your other family members.

[Heatwave316]

Jason, I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

[zilla31]

Sorry my friend. My greatest condolences. I know sitting with your grandfather at his passing is painful now, but one day you will be happy you were there. Trust me.

[David Tucker]

Jason I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. :(

[dstrauss]

Jason:

All of our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bleeman's advice is spot on. Enjoy and share your memories with family and friends.

[Prosper]

Sorry about your loss Jason... I've lost my grandfather last year... can't believe it's already one year ago... time flies...

I'm feeling with you...

[gasusan2006]

Jason

I am sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers

Susan

[karinatwork]

I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss!!! One of my best friends passed away last month, he was only 38 and hearing about your loss makes me sad again... I truly believe however that there is a better place where we will all meet again one day. I know it sounds cheesy, but that's what's been keeping me over water these past few weeks.

You're in my thoughts.

K.

[Damion Chaplin]

Jason, my friend:

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.

Please take your time coming back. There's nothing going on here that's more important than being with your family during this time.

[SPPassion]

Sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[scottb]

Sorry to hear this news. Had a similar experience when my father passed away several years ago -- it takes time to soak it all in, but time helps.

[smitch]

It must have been difficult to be there but it is a blessing that you were. I lost my Dad two years ago and my grandmother two months ago. In both cases I hadn't seen them for about a year due to distance. Take the time you need now and don't be afraid to unplug the communications!
Best,
S

[Adam Krebs]

I'm sorry to hear that, Jason. Like you, I watched my maternal grandfather pass away just this past March.

Take the time to be glad for the time you've spent with him. Our hearts go out to you.

[bshpmark]

Jason: As others have said, I am sorry to hear of your loss. May your grandfather now be at peace and may the light of our Heavenly Father shine upon him. May he have eternal rest. May you know a peace in your heart that passes understanding and may you find comfort in the many pleasant memoriies you have of your time with him.

++Mark

[tbird]

Jason, so very sorry to hear of your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[ucfgrad93]

Sorry to hear that Jason. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

[StellarStaticHawk]

oh, I'm so sorry! Grandparents are amazing people!