I should really stop answering my own posts but...
For anyone who's interested, there are drivers that work for this generic CF card (sold under various companies as Hawking, TrendNet and a few others) If your card has 6 indicator lights, 3 on the right and 3 on the left, these drivers will work.
http://www.trendnet.com/asp/download...205&SUBMIT=Go#
It finally stops the maddening soft reset routine!
Hopefully, someone else will find this useful.