You all owe it to yourself to start at Larry's page at
http://pfranc.com/
In fact, everyone should check it out. It's actually a very interesting story; he was upset that he couldn't get the new eTrex connectors (back when it was new) so he molded his own, and started the "Share Hardware" concept. You can "order" something, and when it arrives, you decide the value and then send money. Anyway, his idea takes off, and it's formed this cooperative community of share hardware sellers, all of whom advertise each other as well as themselves, and help each other. AND give you all the wiring info you want. You can buy just connectors, just cables, connectors to bare cables, and full equipment. Or, they'll do custom for you.
He also has all sorts of info, like how many volts an eTrex can really take in... my favorite cable is one that plugs into the Car cig port, your eTrex, and you iPaq. It a) power the iPaq b) power the GPS (!!) and c) sends data between the two, all for under $60. Cool.